For some of you, the perspective of total sexual abstinence may seem frightening. However, the devil is not so black as he is painted. Today’s piece is about celibacy, and how to not make lack of sex put us even deeper…
Date Archives October 2017
Healthy Masturbation – Possible or Not?
I know that many people will raise objections to this article. However, masturbation is a natural behavior practiced by 95% of adults, as well as by fetuses in the womb and most animal species. Clearly…
Addiction is like a hydra
Question from a client: Any thoughts on the “binge-purge” cycle of porn use? I’ve tossed out all of my stuff over and over only to excitedly replace it in some new way a little later….
Awaken Your Inner Master
Hi guys! A few weeks ago I received a message from one of my clients. He shared with me a list of things that are helpful to him. I believed those are all his insights,…
What works for me – 4th year of sobriety
Hi guys, Since I’m nearing my 4th Anniversary of sobriety from porn, I would like to share my insights about things that worked for me during that time! This is what works for me in…
How To Get Started on the Right Foot Everyday!
Hi guys! So, something I have been doing lately is cycling. I wake up every morning at 6am while it’s still dark and ride around a beautiful lake, (it’s about 15 miles), near my family’s…
5 Things Wrong With Porn
What is wrong with pornography? Penetration of pornography into mass culture and the sexualization of society is a phenomena which we can no longer turn a blind eye to. Just like computerization has become a…
Stop Chasing The Ideal Of Beauty!
Today’s article is about the standards of beauty that we all cultivate. The way you perceive beauty affects your relationship in a profound way – it can take it to the next level and create intimacy,…
The Secret Of Everlasting Motivation
First I need to estabilish something. In order to beat this addiction, you need motivation. Motivation is not something that gracefully falls from the sky to you. It is something that we can and have…
Your Safety Net – How Connecting Can Save Your Recovery
We all have difficult moments, something triggers us and we don’t know, whether we can handle the assault of emotions and compulsive desires that we are flooded with. Maybe you are approaching Christmas time with…